Joy of Unlearning

 More I  am growing up ,more I am unlearning things . 

My parents are a bit prejudiced .They are far better than other people and still ,I would say they are prejudiced . I am better at many things than my parents . I am open to new ideas ,I read , I learn .My parents do that too .But what makes me better is ,I am willing to accept new things . 

 It becomes really difficult to live the life we want to live , the things we want to do , to make choices independently by going against the will of our parents . Parents bring us up with their own ideals ,with their own vision and then they try to impose those on us and on

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society as well (that's why others' parents judge us ).They really want our good , but don't know we actually suffer because of their sense of "good"😂.

 Trust me ,apart from  screaming to have our vegetables and those reprimands for getting addicted to smartphones ,most of the times they are wrong. We are taught to listen to our elders from our childhood and are brought up with a carrot-and-stick approach .But that thing doesn't work when we grow up . If we keep obeying our parents for the rest of our life , we will suffer for the rest of our life . 

   To manifest this realization ,we need to unlearn many things we learnt when we were small and to unlearn things we need courage . I am still on a long way to developing this mighty courage .

             However , I am sure this diverse species caterpillar will successfully transform herself into a butterfly one day ,no matter how much time it takes .